DAY6 - TakeBackTheTech
gosh.. it's getting harder for me to write bout this campaign (especially when it's 16 days long, which means minimum 16 times/stories/issues).... but fret not, i'm trying.. heheheh...
ok...
from reading some bloggers who are joining this campaign, someone was talking about their online chatting experience... as a chatter myself, i too had encountered some frustrating stupid male chatters... at first, being a starter, i would tell everyone who i am, what race i am and whatever nots.... and because i'm a mix, everyone thought i was a HOT CHICK and that i had loads of "experience"... i mean, how could u pass that judgement of just knowing what race i am? and because i'm not a dumb blonde, they wouldn't want to speak to me cause it seems i'm too "smart" for their stupid egos...
so in order to get a decent proper conversation i'll have to "act" like i'm a guy.... though most of the guys online are just finding for girls to talk to.... it's hard to find someone who can have a proper conversation without having to know how old u are, if u're female or not, if u're indian, chinese, malay or eurasian.... after a while i got fedup with how male chatters treat girls online i stopped chatting...
though after a long while i decided to get back to the chatting scene just to see what's it like and fortunately i've found my bf.. hahah so sorry to him i had to "act" like a guy to find a good conversation, i did! with him.. and when i told him i was a girl he was shocked at first but had already accepted me as who i am....
well, u would think i'll be still in chatrooms after that? cause i found someone nice through chatting? heck no.... cause i DID go back to chatting but it went back to square one... having guys harrassing me online... it's been nearly 6 years since i've been to a chatroom and till now i'm still greatfull that i managed to find someone nice online...
so.... maybe i'm too old for online chat, but it's not like before and it's like what it's SUPPOSED to be....
ok...
from reading some bloggers who are joining this campaign, someone was talking about their online chatting experience... as a chatter myself, i too had encountered some frustrating stupid male chatters... at first, being a starter, i would tell everyone who i am, what race i am and whatever nots.... and because i'm a mix, everyone thought i was a HOT CHICK and that i had loads of "experience"... i mean, how could u pass that judgement of just knowing what race i am? and because i'm not a dumb blonde, they wouldn't want to speak to me cause it seems i'm too "smart" for their stupid egos...
so in order to get a decent proper conversation i'll have to "act" like i'm a guy.... though most of the guys online are just finding for girls to talk to.... it's hard to find someone who can have a proper conversation without having to know how old u are, if u're female or not, if u're indian, chinese, malay or eurasian.... after a while i got fedup with how male chatters treat girls online i stopped chatting...
though after a long while i decided to get back to the chatting scene just to see what's it like and fortunately i've found my bf.. hahah so sorry to him i had to "act" like a guy to find a good conversation, i did! with him.. and when i told him i was a girl he was shocked at first but had already accepted me as who i am....
well, u would think i'll be still in chatrooms after that? cause i found someone nice through chatting? heck no.... cause i DID go back to chatting but it went back to square one... having guys harrassing me online... it's been nearly 6 years since i've been to a chatroom and till now i'm still greatfull that i managed to find someone nice online...
so.... maybe i'm too old for online chat, but it's not like before and it's like what it's SUPPOSED to be....
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