Thursday, February 25, 2010

why liddat?

*deletes post*
wrote about why are we forced to play the relationship game, and ranting about why it can't be more simpler, and the difference between asians and ppl from "over there" - but i deleted it. i figured it's a very wide topic, it might offend people and that i'm contradicting myself over and over again in every angle.
bottom line - why issit so hard, to like someone (who is of whatever religion, race, background), tell that person how you feel and move to the next step. if they they feel the same - great, if not, move on to the next topic of conversation, still be friends and hope for better luck next time with another.
why can't it be THAT easy?


LC Teh said...

It's like looking into a maze... we see it as a simple thing going from A to Z. But the guy inside the maze can't see where he is. He has to explore and move and make detours before he can get anywhere specific. Therefore, he gets scared if anyone needs a straight-forward 'yes' or 'no' answer.

Shimmers said...

are all men like that?

Rosalind said...

not all, but some. but yea, most ppl get scared of having to face tht.
wat can we do? we move on.perhaps he's just not that into us / cant see the broader picture / etc...