1 night stand

what does it mean? the basic of the term would usually mean girl goes to club, boy goes to club, girl sees boy, boy sees girl, boy talks to girl, girl talks to boy, girl and boy feels the physical attraction and at the end of the night - they end up in a hotel room, or his place or her place... and after that, they both don't hear from each other again.... (or maybe they do but THAT's a different story)

does that sound about right?

hmm.... i guess so... to me, that is what it means.... but ever since i've been staying here in KL, i've met some "interesting" ppl.. girls i mean (they're easier to make friends with here - btw...sigh why not boys uh? heheheh)... it's that these girls are not the party type (but some of them are) and they are just out there in the "field".... sometimes they get a goal sometimes they don't... but they tell me that nowadays, the boys are more "gentleman" and they are not really interested in scoring... i'm happy to hear about that and i guess it's for the better and that they are now more educated and are more respectful to the female form....

but my question is this...

what type of girls do the guys ACTUALLY want to have a one night stand with? is it with the girls who WANT to have a one night stand? or to the girls who give them some challenge that says "no" to it and it gives them that ego boost to play that game and to try to get them to bed?

what would the guys think about the girls who actually want a one night stand? will the guys think that they are sluts? would they think that maybe even girls just sometimes want to get laid - just like the guys? is it double standard that if the guys can go look for one night stand, the girls can't?

hey i'm not talking about money here ya, no ones whoring and no ones a gigolo.... it's all about the physical attraction....

i haven't heard of such things in penang... maybe we do have it here in penang, but i don't know anyone who has such stories.... but now in kl, it's like a whole new world.... there's so much things that's happening that u don't see, unless someone tells....

so what do u think? i KNOW that one-nigh-stands ARE BAD!! are a NO NO and a NEVER NEVER.... but still... what do you think? or do u know of such situations and how was that being dealt?

these girls were telling me their stories and were waiting for my input about all this but i was speechless... i didn't expect on such "incidents"... so i didn't know what to say.... it just kept me thinking... hmmm... i know that i'm not such a girl who the guys would want to have a one-night-stand.... i'm not even that girl who they will have a second glance with - let alone wanting to be in bed with me.... so my dear readers, u don't need to worry about me being in these situations.... but i would just like to know what you all think about this...