See what I've been up to, naughty or nice?
Thursday, December 29, 2005
Wednesday, December 28, 2005
is it over?
Shined by Shimmers at Wednesday, December 28, 2005
Tuesday, December 27, 2005
100% attendance!
finally.... 100% attendance for the Dugong Clan!
Shined by Shimmers at Tuesday, December 27, 2005
Monday, December 26, 2005
presents
Shined by Shimmers at Monday, December 26, 2005
nicest day!
had a wonderful time.... nothing much though.. but it was nice
Shined by Shimmers at Monday, December 26, 2005
Sunday, December 25, 2005
MERRY CHRISTMAS
Shined by Shimmers at Sunday, December 25, 2005
Saturday, December 24, 2005
1 day to CHRISTMAS!!
Shined by Shimmers at Saturday, December 24, 2005
Friday, December 23, 2005
yeay yeay!
Shined by Shimmers at Friday, December 23, 2005
2 days to CHRISTMAS!
Shined by Shimmers at Friday, December 23, 2005
Thursday, December 22, 2005
3 days to CHRISTMAS!
Shined by Shimmers at Thursday, December 22, 2005
in the news
Shined by Shimmers at Thursday, December 22, 2005
Wednesday, December 21, 2005
4 days to CHRISTMAS!
Shined by Shimmers at Wednesday, December 21, 2005
Tuesday, December 20, 2005
gifts
Shined by Shimmers at Tuesday, December 20, 2005
Monday, December 19, 2005
high on paint
Shined by Shimmers at Monday, December 19, 2005
Aurora the pink!
mai leh!!.... what too many girls???... 2 only what!!!!
Shined by Shimmers at Monday, December 19, 2005
spyware
Shined by Shimmers at Monday, December 19, 2005
Friday, December 16, 2005
sharon's birthday..
Sharon's family
Shined by Shimmers at Friday, December 16, 2005
FINALLY
we went to our normal spot over at Teluk Bahang... though we wanted to visit the Spice Garden, i didn't know it cost nearly RM20 bucks to get in!!! aaaahh.... we skipped that, we'll go there another time...
i had brought some macaroni (left overs) from home and thought we'd have a picnic... (but i actually wanted to bask in the sun.. heheheh).. since my baby is ALWAYS hungry, he ate most of it :(
we were contemplating... should we have a swim or not... i didn't really dress appropriately and my baby got a phobia at this particular beach.. u see.. the last time we came here, he had a swim and something stung him under his feet... and being such a water baby, he was feeling whatever he was feeling under his feet and then he got stung... i told him.. "padan muka.. go feel feel somemore la... that fella under the water sure got pissed and he stung u.." and it was so bad that i had to drive him to the emergency room at Penang GH.... what a day that was... so this time, he didn't want to go in the water... nyeh nyeh nyeh... so he teman-ed me sun bathing :P
we went to Ribs for dinner, i was craving for those ribs after Ah Ma's Birthday lunch we had there... and i know he loves ribs too, so we went there... he was impressed by the deco and loved the ribs too!! heheheh... looks like we'll be going there often!
it was a good day, though i became really tired after that... had to sleep early for my 5am shift the next day.... sigh.... wished we could have more days like that...
Shined by Shimmers at Friday, December 16, 2005
Thursday, December 15, 2005
angels
Shined by Shimmers at Thursday, December 15, 2005
Wednesday, December 14, 2005
christmas yeah!
Shined by Shimmers at Wednesday, December 14, 2005
Tuesday, December 13, 2005
the future
Shined by Shimmers at Tuesday, December 13, 2005
Monday, December 12, 2005
Spare Oom
Shined by Shimmers at Monday, December 12, 2005
Friday, December 09, 2005
strong enough?
yes, they didn't know how they looked like but they fell for each other through their conversations. it was unrealistic but that came to an end when they decided to meet. it was a festive occasion that they decided to meet, prior to that, photographs were sent by courier together with letters and cards stating their love and loads of telephone conversations. when the day came, he met her at her house bearing gifts for her and her family and off they went for their first date.
she thought the first date would be awkward, but she didn't feel that, she felt comfortable. they had talked on the phone nearly everyday and that gave her the confidence to meet him. as for him, he was nervous, was sweating the whole time and gave him the shivers everytime she looked at him, walked next to him. one memorable thing they did together was eating mandarin oranges on the beach. both confessed in liking the fruit and he had brought a big bag of them to be shared between the two. during that time, no words were said, they knew that they were sharing a special moment (even though it was just sitting by the beach, eating and peeling mandarin oranges and getting their hands dirty) and that they knew this was it. that they belong together.
weeks and months after that was bliss. eventhough it was a long distance relationship, they always found time to meet, he'd either come see her at her house in the middle of the night or she'll meet him some where. they'll ALWAYS find a way to meet. they became close, very close. so close till she got him enrolled in a local college and found him a room to rent, so that they could see each other more than before. then the opportunity came for him to study in another state under a scholarship. it was good opportunity and she had to let him go and take it. she thought that since they were ALREADY in a long distance relationship, what's different with another 300KMs away? so he went.
he's been there ever since. he'd come down to see her, and she'll go up to see him. they'd steal a few days away to go for holidays and it was great. it was great until it became too long. the distance felt furthur and the opportunity to be closer is dissapearing. she has tried to go to him, but she had no chance. he couldn't get to her as he was under a scholarship. all they could do is to stay where they are and kept doing what they were doing all along - telephone calls, emails and the occasional 2-3 days a month of meeting each other.
they came to a pact that COMMUNICATION is the key to a relationships. talk talk talk! that is the only way to overcome problems. months and years passed and she started to feel the strain. she was always insisting for him to see her and insisting him to attend family functions. he too felt the strain, in trying to make her happy and at the same time trying to be patient with the family problems he had back in his home town. everytime he had a chance to go back, he had to split his time between his family and her. she has but many times gave him his space for his family but how long can she do that? she too needs his attention.
now that she has finished with her studies, career is now her goal. to find a job, start a career, and he's starting to feel the stress. he's still schooling and he has to start to think of his future. she believes in school->work->car->house->marry, he doesn't. with her having a proper job with normal fixed working hours, that gives them less time to meet and he still needed to juggle his time between her and his family.
it became so bad that most of their telephone conversations were on "when are u on holiday? when are u coming to see me?". the pact of communication has begun to lose. the distance and the differences they had has taken its toll on them, badly. she kept pestering him to make time for her. he's pressured by this and also the time he has to share between her and his family. she's expecting alot from him and he's stressed because he can't meet that expectation and feels dissapointed in her for expecting so much from him. she's frustrated because he's not making any effort to be with her and he's frustrated because she can't seem to understand and be patient with him.
questions has been thrown back and forth between them. why isn't it like how it was before? what happened to the princess i knew? what happened to the energetic and lovable guy i knew? and the only answer they came up was - they had matured, they had grown, they had new responsibilities, they had more differences.... they are drifting apart...
so, do they have the strenght to go on? will she be strong enough to wait till he gets a job and settle down? will he be strong enough to convince her that it'll be soon? will she be strong enough to be more patient and understanding towards him? will he be strong enough to keep his promises and try to be there for her, more?
what do u think? will they be strong enough?
Shined by Shimmers at Friday, December 09, 2005
Do u perm?
Shined by Shimmers at Friday, December 09, 2005
Thursday, December 08, 2005
jingle bells!!.... NOT!
so the week has been busy.... getting back to the 5am shift is horrible!!! and by the time i'm used to it, it's back to the 7am shift...
anyway, it's december and it's time for christmas presents shopping!! i used to have a list of presents for everybody, but this time i didn't, no time to think AND don't know what to get!!! the thing is, it doesn't make it easier when u haven't been out and about the malls to know what's been selling or if there are any new stuffs around...
i got to know that Body Shop has a new line of Cranberry products and that's about it... had a glimps of Vincci, PDI, Giodano... nothing really caught my eye.. i feel Vincci shoe's are getting abit boring in a sense that the colours and style is too gordy for me.... *shrudders*
like i said, i haven't been around so i wouldn't know if there are nice stuffs around... looks like i got to go back to MetroJaya (Island Plaza) to check the stuffs out there again....
Prangin Mall sucks.... yes u can get majority of your christmas presents there (cause there's variety and it's CHEAP!!) but they don't show the christmas spirit!! DAMN!!! no decorations... even if there was, i didn't see it.. even the shops decoration sucks!!!! really sucks man!! i went in there, thought i could find my christmas spirit there but NADA!!!! it felt like any other ordinary day in Prangin.... SIGH!!!
at Gurney.. well... there's the controversial christmas tree... opps sorry, christmas candy-cane tree... and lights all around.. and that was BEFORE december!! by now, i'm sure there are more decorations, haven't been there yet.... but it's DEFINATELY better than Prangin...
oh shuucks.. i'm getting myself in a no-mood-to-work-because-of-christmas state....
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what happened to my baby? don't ask!!!!! make me angry only thinking bout him grrrhhhhh!
Shined by Shimmers at Thursday, December 08, 2005
Sunday, December 04, 2005
jazz in the head...
Shined by Shimmers at Sunday, December 04, 2005
team dinner pics
so i'm home now and got my heavy butt over to the computer and organised my pics.. wow.. the first time i nearly filled my memory card taking pics and movies (of the team dinner and the Jazz Festival)
Shined by Shimmers at Sunday, December 04, 2005
Saturday, December 03, 2005
ugghhh sooo full
Shined by Shimmers at Saturday, December 03, 2005
Friday, December 02, 2005
THAI food.....
Shined by Shimmers at Friday, December 02, 2005